Supporting survivors

Amy’s story

Posted by Jenni James on 9 November 2026

Getting a last minute space on the Restored Retreat made such a difference for me. 

I wanted to go to the retreat because I needed a break from my life. Things had been very intense for me for several months beforehand – initially I hadn’t been able to commit to it. Then, a few weeks before, a space became available and everything just fell into place: my mum was able to help with childcare, and so with just a few weeks’ notice, I got a place. 

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Everything was so quick that I didn’t really think about how I was feeling about going, I was just looking forward to it. Then, as I was driving there, I started having these thoughts: what’s it going to be like? Who am I going to meet? I didn’t really know what to expect. 

When I arrived, the first thing I noticed was how beautiful and peaceful the grounds were. It felt so secluded. I had faces meeting me to explain everything. I arrived a little bit late, so I walked into a room full of women having fun and games – it was such a joyful atmosphere and it immediately put me at ease. 

There were a couple of things that stood out as the best bits for me. The first one I think any other mums might be able to understand! At one point I just went to my room and had a nap – I was so, so exhausted and needed some time by myself. The other thing was being able to fully participate in the sessions – I’ve got a little boy, and I haven’t been in a church service by myself since he was born. To be able to be fully present in my own right was really helpful for me. Sitting in the garden with other women, sun on our skin, just chatting – taking a walk and smelling the roses! It was such a beautiful experience. 

This Christmas, you can help more women experience a weekend of rest and community on the Restored Retreat, like I did. Getting a last minute place made such a difference to me, and it would mean so much for other women to have this opportunity too. Anything you’re able to give will help – just £12 could provide a gift bag for a guest when she arrives, helping her feel really welcome and cared for. 

Thank you so much for your support.

With love,

Amy* x

You can give a weekend of retreat to another woman like Amy*.

This Christmas, you can help a woman experience a weekend at the Restored Retreat, giving them a break from the challenges of recovery. By donating today, you’ll be giving a survivor like Amy* the chance to rest in a safe place, form friendships with others who understand, and connect with God without distraction. It’s incredible what a difference this can make.

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*Name changed to protect anonymity.