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The Survivors Handbook

The Survivors Handbook is a comprehensive for survivors, helping womennavigate the recovery journey.

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The Survivors Handbook is aimed at supporting survivors on their journey to recovery. It covers a whole range of topics, helping you as you prepare to leave a relationship, through the divorce process, and for the rest of your journey towards healing.

The handbook contains contributions from 14 authors, each a specialist in their field. They include Louisa Whitney, a specialist in family law, Professor Ally Kern, who specialises in relating theology to survivors of domestic abuse, and Betsy de Thierry, CEO of the Trauma Recovery Centre.

The majority of the guidance in the handbook will apply to any survivor of abuse, whatever their faith background, but the final section is aimed at helping Christians to navigate some common questions about faith. At Restored, we know that Christian women who’ve experienced domestic abuse feel like they need to choose between their faith and their freedom. We believe it’s possible to have both – and the final section of the handbook explains why.

Tap the section headers to get an overview of what’s covered in the handbook.

This section includes guidance on legal protective orders and the divorce process, managing finances, and other intersecting factors like pregnancy, immigration status and disability.

Find advice for supporting children through trauma, managing your mental and physical health, and establishing boundaries.

The final section of the handbook answers some common questions asked by survivors of faith, such as ‘What does the Bible say about domestic abuse?’, ‘Is it Biblical to divorce an abusive Partner?’, and ‘Do I need to forgive them?’.

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Get a copy to give away

The Survivors Handbook isn’t just helpful for survivors; it’s a brilliant resource for anyone to have on hand to give away to someone who might need it, or to help you get an insight into what it’s really like to leave an abusive relationship. Why not get a copy or two to have at home, or to keep in your church library?

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Based in Australia?

Anglicare Australia have produced a version of the Survivors Handbook contextualised for Australia, with relevant guidance for the Australian legal system. You can request or purchase a copy over on their website.

Australian Handbook

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